If you're a parent of a kiddo with some neurological needs, many traditional family go-to places are simply too overwhelming. Here are a few local things that I've found work well for kids with neurological needs:
Adaptive Cheerleading http://www.buffaloenvyallstars.com/adaptive-cheer-program.html
AMC Theatres - AMC Maple Ridge 8 has sensory-friendly showtimes 3-4 times/ year or so. https://www.amctheatres.com/programs/sensory-friendly-filmssensory-friendly
Chuck-E-Cheese Sensory Sundays https://www.chuckecheese.com/events/sensory-sensitive-sundays
Explore & More: Au-some Evenings at Explore and More Museum- Free - reservations requiredhttp://exploreandmore.org/calendar/au-some-evenings/
Fun Friends - Open gym in Lewiston - Free
Game Night at Lancaster Youth Bureau - for ASD -video, board games, new friends
Niagara Falls Aquarium: Au-some Aquarium - First Friday of the month 6- 8pm - $10 per family https://www.aquariumofniagara.org/education/au-some-aquarium/
Rolly Pollies has a SN@P program
Sensory Friendly Movies - Flix,Lancaster. Maple Ridge, Amherst, Jamestown
Sensational Fun - Orchard Park - family oriented play place - cost
Sweet Charlotte's - Open play at Sweet Charlotte's in Clarence - Cost
Multiple programs for the creative arts including theatre, dance, and music Horseback riding, skating, bowling, baseball, softball , and even skiing programs
SkyZone - Sensory Sundays https://www.skyzone.com/buffalo/programs/sensory-sunday Groupon has great deals on 2-hour passes) usually 9:00-11:00am
Theatre of Youth (now entirely sensory friendly!) http://www.theatreofyouth.org/sensory-friendly
We Rock the Spectrum -Northtowns and Southtowns - https://www.werockthespectrumbuffalonorthtowns.com/
Also...
Find you Niche (Skill development for youths with Asperger Syndrome HF Autism)
Day and Overnight Camps
Respite programs -must be waiver enrolled